How to be THE man every woman wants!
The secret is here.
Sometimes, when I look at couples, I wonder how that man with no sense at all got that beautiful girl. It’s puzzling how opposites can really attract. But after consulting my pals, I came to know what exactly that guy did to attract that beautiful girl. It wasn’t difficult for him at all. In fact, it is not difficult for any guy to get a girl stuck in his web.
It is not good looks or money or habits that a girl looks in a guy. It is simplicity and confidence. I mean, it is as simple as that! There’s nothing NEW you need to do. To be the man she always wanted but never found, you should:
Be yourself
There is nothing more gross than pretending to be someone else. She is not stupid to buy your drama. Within moments, she will come to know about your acts. Then and there, you will lose your chance forever. Be yourself, buddy. It is so uncomfortable being someone you are not. Trying to be courteous and charming and a gentleman, just don’t do it. Throw all your acts in the dustbin and come out clean. There is nothing more charming than being yourself.
Be a man
You are a man and we know about the anger and desire that surges in you when you see something. But be mature enough to control your feelings. Being honest does not mean you will sit on a girl’s head if that’s your wish. Be a man who knows what to do. And by that I mean, be mature. Shoot some wisdom in your brain because we girls just love that!
Be ambitious
Another thing girls love to listen to is your thoughts about the future. She needs to be secure and safe with you. If you have mighty plans for the future, if you have ambitions and goals in life, a girl will automatically fall for you. But, don’t fake it. Don’t try to tell a girl, ‘One day I’m going to launch my missile.’ Come on! That’s highly impossible. Do something that is achievable, that is within your reach. And don’t just say, do it!
Don’t be a “Baby”
You must not act like a baby trapped in a man’s body. Throwing tantrums, crying, arguing, seeking attention all the time; that’s hell of a thing you must not do. These habits will make you look amateur, not a man who is ready for a relationship.
Be confident, be responsible
Don’t be a man who does not know how to behave in public, what to do when stuck, what food to order or where to take a woman on a date. Take full responsibility of yourself. Guard your decisions, actions and intentions. Girls observe very well. So if you hold someone else responsible for your failure, Bye! You are not the man she ever wanted or I’d say, you are the man she NEVER wanted!
Don’t be needy
Don’t tell a woman you can not stay without her on your first date. You barely know her and telling her this will give you a negative point. ‘I think of you everyday, I can’t live without you.’ Get a life dude! Keep your mouth shut rather than saying this. Be independent, I’m sure she will fall for you.
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haha this is so true. sounds like most of my previous relationships, i actually say stuff like I’ll go on an Interstellar voyage someday. xD
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Hahahaha
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See that tone change when they want something from you
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😂 is it?
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Yes ….
You have to be a keen observant
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I’ll be. 😉
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Always speak the truth, do not live in the shadow of lies, for in time the truth will speak instead of you.
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That’s the rule of life.
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Mastery of language
affords remarkable power.
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Life is seasonal, everything is in constant change, nothing stays bad or good forever, it just constantly evolves & changes.
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Love calls the names of those who are willing to follow their heart.
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Passing on to some of my friends, Alisha!😉
Useful insights🙂
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😀 thanks!
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I think, most of the men, including me are guilty of few or all of the misdemeanors listed above! So, now I know why girls avoided me! In fact, never thought it through these angles and always blamed lack of money and looks. Like everyone else. Quite an eye-opener!
Brilliant post!
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I’m happy it helped. 🙂
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Great post. Love it! Thank you for follwing my blog.
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Thanks to you too
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Everything is so on spot here. A really well crafted post. – Cezane
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The post itself is a bit conflicting, but then again maybe it’s past relationships that have taught me to think otherwise
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I never thought so but would try and keep this in mind 😀😀 could be also called as an eye opener
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Sure sure 😀
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Very well stated… The last point is one of the most important ones, I think.,. Have a great weekend. Aquileana 😉
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Thanks, hon. You too 😁
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Ya.. Be yourself .. Is the best way forward to anybody’s heart 😄
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//One day I’m going to launch my missile// This is hilarious. She might ask,” Hello poor man’s Elon Musk , where are you launching it?”
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Haha!
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Both men and women have to be themselves when testing the relationship waters, I think, Alisha. When you find the right person, the natural combination of personalities lets both people become a better self! Alas, It took me some trial and error in life to come to this conclusion … 😉
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Psychologically there is nothing like that human is animal having same needs ,lust , hunger , emotions etc so its more about availability , safety , circumstances and biggest factor is hormones
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Brilliant post and keen observer about nature of women.
Alisha you have good power to use words.
Tum urdu bool sakti ho? Jaisy tumara name hy..!
Stay happy and blessed.
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Hey!
Thank you for your words.
Haan me urdu bol sakti hu. Urdu and Hindi are nearly similar.
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Hmmm. So nice to e meet u. Aur buhat khushi ki baat ky ap urdu janti ho. Where from u?
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Hey
Thank you for taking the time to step on over to Love Relaished Ink. It’s wonderful to have your whimsical soul as a new companion on my long and winding road.
From what I have seen of your blog so far, I’ve no doubt you are already finding writing a totally engaging and personally fulfilling experience. I hope the pleasurable company of words will always flow and follow you as you flow following the flow of your flowing path flowing into the wide blue yonder, and flow onwards towards the adventures that follow the flow beyond that…
Best wishes. Take care always in all ways for always.
Namaste
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Hi Ajay!
Thanks for the beautiful comment. I had to read the ‘flow and following line’ to understand it. Nevertheless it was witty. Hope to read more of your blog posts.
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Ur most welcome
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